Are you a hater and or a shaker?

Its always a thrill to get a positive review.  I just checked Amazon.com and found a new review posted which gave me 5 stars.  Wow.  Totally raised my spirits for the day.  The reviewer even left a brief positive comment.  I always appreciate when reviewers put into words what touched them. 


However, as an author, you are going to get the negative reviews too.  I now realize, after reading a few of my own, that when I review a book, I should not only be more sensitive but also more specific.  While negative reviews are hard to read, they can also be very helpful when the reviewer points out what did not work for them.  Was it a character choice?  Was it the editing (which usually is out of your control as an author)?  Was it the setting?  One reviewer of my book stated that they felt the internal dialogue was too mature for my characters.  I appreciate their honesty because I did actually struggle with that during the writing process.  I wanted to show the main character's maturity develop.  However, for that reader, some parts of it did not work.  Another reviewer wrote that I used the occasional American slang and specifically referenced in my writing that I called siblings "kids" instead of "children."  Much appreciation!  Now I know to watch for that as I develop book 2.


As an author of historical fiction, some dictation is obviously too modern to use.  However, words like "kids" is not one that would occur to me as being overtly American.  I remember looking up many different reference words to ensure they were probable ways for an ancient person to express themselves.  If I found words that originated in England during the middle ages, I looked for a synonym.  So again, there was another example of a review that was somewhat negative but also extremely helpful.  I could have taken that personally.  No one else has commented on that before.  But I knew it was not about me.  And the reviewer did give props to the research done. 


And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate....


However, there have been some craptastic reviews.  One person stated how my writing was at the level of a junior high student's ability.  Ouch!  That one took a little time for me.  The comment was definitely directed at me as an author. 

So how does one overcome such words?  A cousin of mine put it well.  He told me that its very easy to write an anonymous review and criticize something.  And he's right about that.  There's no ownership or responsibility associated with it.  He also said that its much harder to write a book.  And that's what I remember when a low-star review is posted. 

Baby, I'm just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake...

Say it a few times:

I wrote a book. 

I wrote a book! 

I wrote a 500+ page book, baby!!!! 

I feel good about that. 

You should feel good about your work too.  Realize that you're not going to please everyone.  Not even Harry Potter pleases everyone.  Are you happy?  Do you feel you did your best?  For me the answer is a definite: Hell yes!  So be proud.  You should be.  And as Taylor Swift would say (sorry, my son is a huge fan):  I shake it off, I shake it off!